An intimate portrait of myself in reflection - photo credit to Ng Miew Luan.
Each quarter of 2014 consists of unforgettable loss that will remain in me throughout this lifetime. It starts with the disappearance of MH 370 during the first quarter. On the second quarter, my beloved daddy passed away unexpectedly. During the third quarter, Malaysia was hit with another disaster of MH 17 and finally, just days that we thought we will look forward for the sunny days of 2015, another aviation disaster hit close to home involving Air Asia while bracing for Malaysia’s worst flood in history.
2014 is the year that I see clearly the good and the bad in people, especially those who call themselves friends and relatives. Daddy’s passing exposed me to the hard truth of who are your true relatives who cry together and who are those that will only share laughter but not tears. I do wish to hide my disgust at certain relatives who only stick on during the good days as well as those few who think it is their duty to be involved influencing the decisions that my brothers and I made. To this group of people, my only kind word to them is, please leave us alone and please do not try to change my mother and the way we conduct our family affairs.
2014 also serve as a reminder that I should always be thankful to God for blessing me with wonderful friends and colleagues who did their best to make me bounce back as soon as possible whenever I face any setback. It is also amazing to see how everyone get together to render their generosity at the mere mention that some other friend whom they have not even met need help. I am also humbled by the many important lessons that I learn from them, be it big or small, the camaraderie of members of the New Movement group and my brothers and sisters from MCA. Last but not least, I have to say my thanks to the team from Shanghai Restaurant at J.W.Marriott Hotel, Kuala Lumpur that took good care of my every gastronomic needs and quest for perfection.
On another personal side, everything was smooth sailing at work and my career path is on track and I am very fortunate to have a very understanding boss who gave me a free hand in making important decisions as well as my dedicated group of colleagues, for without them, things may not go as smoothly as planned. 2014 were full of interesting new cases and challenges but I am not at liberty to disclose them.
Finally, I would like to close this chapter in life with a note of optimism that tomorrow will always be better. For there are downs, there are bound to be ups. Air travel is still the safest mode of travelling despite the multiple tragedies, and I’ve clocked considerable amount of air miles in 2014 for work and holiday, starting with Guilin and ending with Shanghai and many other cities in between. As always, books are my best companion, having achieved more than my aim with 55 books read in this span of 12 months.
Adieu 2014, and I look forward to 2015, may it be annus mirabilis!